Start your review of Attraction Formula Write a review Mar 15, Abdullah rated it really liked it Paul Janka covers a lot of ground in this short book: style, logistics, appearance, attraction, dating, sex, philosophy, etc. Otherwise, the book gave me two limiting beliefs: 1 meeting girls on the street at night is bad, 2 going to bars and clubs to meet girls is bad. This book is okay for someone to start off in the game. The author does discuss how the game can come down to being a numbers game. What I would have liked more is when what to say in as many scenarios as possible.
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He emphasizes investing the least amount of time possible to pick up women. Janka believes that the most effective way to pick up a woman is by keeping the conversation short. He does not focus on opening lines and maintaining the flow of the conversation. After that, you can follow up through texting or calling. Leading the girl to bed would be easier then. Preparation - Philosophy and Mindset 2. Engagement - Bringing Her into Your Reality 3. Midgame - Moving Beyond the Digits 4.
Sexual logistics - Making It Happen 5. Relationships - The Final Frontier 6. Prior to becoming a dating coach he has been an entrepreneur, hedge fund analyst, tutor, actor and writer. He has a physics degree from Harvard.
Of all of these he probably enjoys writing the most. He moved to Boston for his education at Harvard, and went straight into entrepreneurship after leaving school. He had some business success but eventually after 5 years the company he founded went bankrupt and he was left in a less than perfect financial situation. At the same time, as he was in his twenties he says he was relatively successful with women compared to the average guy sleeping with 30 women by his mid-twenties.
However he remembers being frustrated many times with opportunities he missed at the time. He moved to New York City after his first stint with his own business and worked at a hedge fund as well as a tutor going forward. He says he was amazed by the number of attractive and beautiful women in the streets of New York city when he arrived.
When he arrived in New York as a consequence he naturally began to spend more time chasing women and developed a relatively extreme player lifestyle. Soon, he met another player, who had similar goals and they began swapping notes, theories and learning from each others mistakes and successes. His circle of friends were well aware of his playboy lifestyle because he constantly had new women at the parties he held or was invited to.
This gained him a reputation and he was quite open about his lifestyle. In Paul wrote a personal piece for fun to share with his friends. He sent it to some of his friends, many of which were from his Harvard or hedge fund days and working in the investment banking industry. A couple of years later he discovered that the document had been circulated around and a lot of people had read it.
Bankers would even use it when planning their dates and talking amongst themselves, asking themselves "What would Janka do? The document got indexed by Google at this time and a reporter from "Psychology Today" found it. Janka did a piece with them on the subject of meeting and dating women.
Shortly afterwards one of the girls he had got the number of happened to find it when she Googled his name. He says today that he honestly felt a good connection with her. He managed to get her out for coffee, and at this point discovered she was a producer with "Today". The biggest of these was with Dr. Phil where he had a cam and microphone strapped on him to walk around NYC and pick up women live.
He gave a pretty good performance, getting girls numbers, which sparked more interest in him. Paul is known for his direct honesty, which comes across in these TV appearances. He also tells it exactly how he sees it. He relayed his experiences and his transformation from a "year old virgin to a playboy who have slept with beautiful women". After the success of the product, Janka continued to pursue his career as a dating coach through his company also named Attraction Formula, recently re-branded "Janka Method".
Thanks to the book and media appearances Paul Janka became a talk-piece on websites such as Gawker. In when a girl met him under the pretense of wanting to date him but with her own journalistic agenda she later accused him of sexual assault to Gawker. This generated a lot of attention with both negative and positive comments aimed at Janka.
The girl never pressed charges. Although many admire him and follow his advice, some are just plainly offended by his approach to women, even calling him a "sex creep". As far as criticism goes. Janka continues to live in New York City and has writing projects underway in addition to his dating instructing activities.
Around this number was According to Jezebel. He has put out a lot of live video footage of him approaching women, both on public television Dr. Phil and in his training products including " Attraction Formula Infield Pickups. The videos below show two examples of live footage of Janka approaching and getting phone numbers from women in the street. Paul Janka with two sisters in Italy. Paul Janka with twin blondes in Italy.
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Attraction Formula - Paul Janka
If your happy using your life and so are an easy going guy, then this woman will probably be easy going and happy around you. After being dumped, anybody would tend to find the best way possible to advance on and free himself out from depression. This is the knowledge that will give you more power. The funny thing about guys is they may be like rats, guys collect all form of advice mostly bad and then sit in the home or hang out using their buddies and talk about how to pick up women as an alternative to going out and seeking to talk to one.
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If you are experienced, and feel texting and phoning is still complicated, you should also consider getting this - Janka does an excellent job of pointing you to the most important things. We discussed the merits and disadvantages of this philosophy previously in our review of Attraction Formula. As with all Paul Janka material, the upside of his advice is that you can be sure the advice has been tested and practiced thousands of times by Janka during his years as a hard core player. Systematic Rules to Follow Some of the best of this book is how advice is given to you. Janka gives you Hard Rules to guide you so that there is no misunderstsanding of what he is telling you to do. Impossible for anyone not to follow really. Example of these rules are times he gives you when you should or should not text a girl.